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THE LAST WORD ON BURIAL AND CREMATION
Harry Bethel
© 2011 Harry Bethel

1-12-2011

The fascinating truths presented in this article will set you free from the bondage of some false concepts that you have embraced for a long time.

Jesus told His disciples the truth will set you free. But it's not merely reading or hearing truth that sets you free, it's embracing truth that sets you free. Free from what? Free from the bondage of false teaching, false concepts and deceptions.

You unnecessarily experience anxiety and stress because you embrace false concepts concerning death, funerals, burial and related matters.

When you deal with making funeral arrangements, in advance or after a loved one passes away, it can cause a lot of anxiety, especially when your savings is small or non-existent.

This anxiety can be especially great when you are confronted with an unexpected loss of a family member and pressure is added to an already emotional and grievous state.

At a time like that, thinking rationally can be difficult. There is usually cultural influences and pressure from family members for you to conform to widely accepted beliefs.

Most of these beliefs are of little or no concern to God.

If you pay close attention to all of this article, you will not only be relieved by this newfound freedom, but you, or your family, can save thousands of dollars concerning burial or cremation expenses.

However, saving money is not the most important benefit of reading this message. You are about to read some of the most fascinating and little-known truths concerning not only burial and cremation, but also what you really are, what death really is, and what life really is.

As with all of our beliefs and practices, those concerning burial and cremation, should be in accordance with the truths presented in the Bible.

The first thing you need to understand is what you are.

Most people think they are their body. You are not your body. You are only in your body. You are a spirit that dwells in your body. If you are a Christian your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit of Christ.

Your spirit, which is you, dwells within the realm of your soul, which is in your physical body, as long as your body is alive.

It is your soul that enables you to have experiences with the physical realm. Your soul interfaces, as it were, with your physical body. Your soul is the realm in which you have your mind, your personality, your will and your emotions.

It's because of your soul--- the realm between you and your physical body--- that you can experience all the emotions that are common to man.

Now that you know that you are not your body, you will find out what death really is.

By knowing what death is you can better understand what God has to say concerning dead bodies, burial and cremation.

The main difference between a Christian and an unsaved person is that a Christian is spiritually alive, and an unsaved person is spiritually dead.

The Bible reveals that all who are not born again are spiritually dead in their trespasses and sins.

Because of Adam's sin, people are born spiritually dead, and spiritually separated from God and live a soulish life as opposed to a spiritual life.

One can live a spiritual life only after being born again by the Holy Spirit of Christ. Of course, in these last days of apostasy, many true Christians live a soulish life rather than a spiritual life.

It is important to understand that spiritual death is separation from God.

It is the salvation experience, also known as being born-again, that results in being given eternal life by Christ, who is Life.

Jesus said, I am the Way, the Truth, and the Life.

If you don't have the Spirit of Christ in your spirit, you are spiritually dead and separated from God.

When one experiences physical death one does not cease to exist, as some believe.

I have coined a new word that better describes reality concerning a human corpse, or dead body.

That word is ex-body.

The word ex-body accurately describes a corpse or dead body, in reference to the person who used to inhabit it.

Believing a dead body is the person who used to inhabit it is a false concept.

Also, to believe that a corpse belongs to the person who used to inhabit it is a false concept.

Again, to believe that a dead body is the person who used to inhabit it, or to believe that a dead body belongs to the person who used to inhabit it, is a delusion.

Sometimes at funeral homes people say things like, Joe is in that casket over there. Or, Joe's body is in that casket over there. Or, someone might say something like Joe is interred at Forest Lawn Cemetery. Or, Joe's body is interred at Forest Lawn Cemetery.

If all these statements were referring to a real person, all these statements would be false.

An ex-body is simply a corpse that remains after a person experiences physical death and vacates that body and goes either to heaven or to hell. That body no longer belongs to the previous occupant and he or she has no connection to that dead body.

A corpse is no longer your loved one's body, it is his or her ex-body. Furthermore, the person who once inhabited that dead body, has no concern whatsoever regarding what happens to it.

So, physical death is separation of the soul and spirit from the body, and spiritual death is separation from Jesus Christ, who is God.

True Christians who abide in Christ cannot die, but they can experience their body dying. Of course, Christians who are raptured when Jesus returns will not experience physical death.

In the strictest sense, it would not be accurate to say unsaved people die, because they're already dead in their trespasses and sins. It would be accurate to say that an unsaved person experienced physical death or that his or her body died.

Therefore, it is accurate to say someone, whether saved or unsaved, experiences physical death, because whether one is spiritually alive or spiritually dead one can experience physical death, sometimes more than once.

There are several accounts in the Bible of people experiencing physical death and being miraculously brought back to live in their body.

Sometimes people say things such as, Joe died yesterday. But the truth is that if Joe is a Christian who abided in Christ, he did not die.

Concerning those who have been born again and remain in Him, Jesus said in John 11:26 that everyone who lives and believes in Him will never die; that is, will never experience spiritual death, which is separation from Him.

Concerning physical death, there is no longer any relationship between a person who has experienced physical death and the body that is left behind, anymore than a cocoon that is left behind by a butterfly.

A corpse is only the ex-body of a person, and is no longer a part of that person, and never will be again.

Some important truths concerning the resurrection will be revealed, later.

When a person experiences physical death, he or she goes to heaven or to hell, and regardless of which place one goes, that person doesn't care, at all, what happens to the body they left behind. Not even one little bit. 

This means that every single person in heaven and every single person in hell couldn't possibly care less whether or not their ex-body is buried or cremated or left to rot in a desert or eaten by vultures.

The common, strong identification of a person with his or her body, rather than with one's soul and spirit within one's body, results in falsely believing that a corpse is that person.

For example, as alluded to above, when a dead body is being buried the surviving friends and relatives refer to the corpse as Joe or Jane being buried.

Or, some people refer to a grave as that person's final resting place. Neither of these could be further from the truth.

Likewise, the strong identification with one's body results in even Christians saying, for example, "When I die I want to be buried in such and such cemetery." Or, "When I die I want to be cremated."

Reality is that, after a person experiences physical death, it is impossible to bury that person or to cremate that person.

It is only the ex-body of a person that can be buried or cremated. No person, has ever been buried or cremated after he or she experienced physical death.

When a person experiences physical death, he or she leaves that body and if there were any demons in that person's body or soul they leave, too.

You can no more cremate a human than you can cremate a demon.

Burial or cremation of a person's ex-body is only a means of disposal of a corpse.

A person who is in heaven or in hell has no connection whatsoever to his or her ex-body. Therefore, a funeral is not for the person who went to heaven or hell, but rather for those who are survivors.

A funeral is not even for a person's ex-body because they no longer have any connection to that corpse.

In one dictionary a funeral is defined as "ceremonies connected with burial or cremation of the dead."

Writers, editors and publishers of dictionaries, do not understand that after people experience physical death, they cannot possibly be buried or cremated.

After you experience physical death, the ceremony in which survivors participate and refer to as your funeral, in reality is not your funeral, at all, but could more accurately be described as their funeral.

A funeral is for all the participants of a funeral ceremony, not for the person who used to inhabit the corpse being buried or cremated. The person who experienced physical death is not concerned, at all, whether or not anyone participates in what is erroneously called his or her funeral.

Burial of the dead, cremation of the dead, and funerals for the dead are widely accepted concepts, but those concepts are as false as the sun orbiting the earth or the earth being flat.

The overwhelming majority of true Christians believe the body they leave behind which is buried or cremated will, sometime in the future, be resurrected. Indeed, there will be a resurrection, but all the resurrected bodies will be spiritual bodies.

None of the physical bodies that were buried or cremated will be resurrected.

In First Corinthians chapter 15, Paul wrote about the disposal of a physical dead body. He said it is sown a perishable body, it is raised an imperishable body... it is sown a natural (or physical) body, it is raised a spiritual body. Paul said if there is a natural body, there is also a spiritual body.

Whether or not your ex-body is buried or cremated or neglected altogether, will make zero difference concerning you and the resurrection.

The truth is, corpses or dead bodies that are left behind will never be inhabited by anyone again.

What everyone will inhabit is a resurrected spiritual body that is different than the one left behind.

If you will accept these profound truths, you can have peace about the disposal of a loved one's ex-body and bring glory to God by being a good steward of His money that He entrusted to you.

The Bible says that God is invisible and that no one has seen God at any time. Jesus is God manifested in the flesh, that is, in a physical body. He said when you have seen Him you have seen God the Father.

What Jesus was saying was that when you see His body, you see the image or representation of God the Father, who is invisible.

Christ is fully Man and fully God. He is the fullness of the Godhead bodily.

People can, as it were, see God the Father by looking at the body of the Man Christ Jesus. Otherwise, you could not as easily comprehend certain attributes of God.

The Bible says God the Father is Spirit and is invisible. You are a spirit and therefore you are invisible, and the reason other humans can know and interact with you is because you're in a physical body.

It is because we almost totally interact with people via their body that we wrongly think of them as being their body.

Relatively few are aware of the fact that the people with whom they interact are not the bodies those people inhabit.

Because of this age-old and universal human way of perceiving what they think is reality, God accommodates man's continual propensity to ignore reality in favor of perpetual social conventions. By this I mean that, even though humans aren't their bodies and only reside in their bodies, virtually all of us believe and live as though we are our body.

In His written Word, God employed the literary technique of referring to a corpse as the person who used to inhabit that body, or, of referring to a corpse, for example, as Moses' body. God, in some cases, refers to a person's ex-body as being that person, which is not reality, but only God's accommodation of mankind's perception of reality.

God sometimes accommodates some generalized human concepts and social conventions that aren't based on reality, at all.

Another example is that the Bible many times refers to the rising of the sun. Reality is, the sun only appears to rise, and is only an illusion because the earth rotates on its axis, and not because the sun orbits the earth.

The sun does not orbit the earth, as it appears. A human is not the body in which he or she lives, as it appears.

God does not and cannot lie, so the Bible referring to the sun rising is not a lie, but is only saying that which was universally accepted as a true concept based on perception, and not on reality.

God allowed virtually all humans, including His people, for thousands of years to believe that the sun orbited the earth.

In the Bible God uses phrases such as a man, after experiencing physical death, being "laid among his fathers." God inspired writers of Scripture to pen phrases such as "the rising of the sun," but these phrases were not meant by God to be taken literally.

Generally, it was after Galileo and perhaps a few others proved that the sun did not orbit the earth that this universal belief was realized to be false.

Galileo was accused of teaching heresy and even suffered persecution because his claim was considered to be contrary to the Scriptures.

In the Book of Deuteronomy, chapter 34, the Bible refers to God burying Moses in the valley in the land of Moab; but reality is that God did not literally bury Moses, or even Moses' body, but rather God buried Moses' ex-body.

Hundreds of years later Moses appeared on the Mount of Transfiguration. Moses wasn't resurrected, he simply left his body at the time he experienced physical death, and centuries later appeared on the Mount of Transfiguration with Jesus, Elijah, Peter, James and John.

When a Christian experiences physical death and leaves his or her body, that person and the Spirit of Christ in that Christian leaves that corpse. That body is no longer a temple of the Holy Spirit. Therefore, cremation is not destroying a temple of the Holy Spirit, as some Christians falsely believe.

After a Christian leaves his or her body for the last time, the Holy Spirit will never again live in that body, and neither will the Christian who used to indwell it.

Paul wrote in First Corinthians 15 that flesh and blood cannot inherit the kingdom of God.

Your physical body or your physical ex-body cannot inherit the kingdom of God.

God says a dead body is sown a physical body, but will be raised a spiritual body.

Even if there is continuity of the ex-body and the person in heaven or hell who used to indwell it, it makes no difference whether the dead body is buried or cremated, or vaporized in a nuclear blast.

On the Last Day the entire universe and heaven will be completely destroyed by fire and all the elements will melt with fervent heat.

After what I call The Great Cremation, only that which is spiritual or invisible will remain, until the New Heaven and the New Earth are created after The Judgment.

God says in Second Corinthians 4:18 that the things which are seen, or physical, are temporal, but the things which are not seen, or spiritual, are eternal.

On the Last Day everything physical, including the earth, all the stars and planets, the entire universe, and even heaven, will be completely destroyed by fire.

After the total destruction of everything physical by the Great Cremation, God will create a New Heaven and New Earth.

Now, you need to know a little more about death. Jesus died because He was separated from God the Father by spiritual death.

On the Cross, Jesus experienced physical death and spiritual death. God the Father separated Himself from the Man Christ Jesus on the Cross, just prior to Jesus' physical death.

The agony that Jesus experienced was so great that He cried out, "My God, My God, why have you forsaken Me?"

When the burden of all mankind's sins were laid upon Jesus, the incomprehensible agony of spiritual death, which was being separated from God the Father, was so great that Jesus experienced physical death shortly afterward.

Spiritual death is not ceasing to exist, but rather separation from God.

A Christian who abides in Christ won't experience physical death for the last time until he or she fulfills on earth, the purpose of God, just as the Book of Acts tells us about King David.

God's Word in Ecclesiastes 7:1 says that the day of one's death is better than the day of one's birth.

Paul, who experienced being caught up to heaven and returning to earth, said it is far better for a Christian to go be with the Lord than to stay here.

The Bible also says, "Precious in the sight of the Lord is the death of His saints."

Paul alluded to the fact that, for a Christian, to be absent from the body is to be present with the Lord.

Humans place far more importance on physical life than God does.

Jesus said in Luke 14 that unless you hate your life you can't be His disciple, or learner. Jesus was referring to one's physical life.

Jesus said that He is the resurrection and the life, and he who believes in Him will live even if he dies (that is, experiences physical death).

Jesus went on to say that everyone who lives and continues to believe in Him will never die.

Now, depending on the size of the corpse, there is, on average, several pounds of bone fragments remaining after a body is cremated in a modern crematory. The remaining bone fragments, some of which are fairly large, are ground into very small bits, and those ground-up bone fragments are erroneously referred to as ashes. There are virtually no ashes left after the cremation of a corpse.  

By the way, cremated remains are referred to by professionals as cremains. Cremains is short for cremated remains. Cremains are not cremated remains of a person, but rather the cremated remains of a person's ex-body.

Cremation causes all the water in a corpse to evaporate and burns up all the tissue and most, but not all, of the bones. The typical human body is about 70% water.  

Cremation is merely a fast, efficient and economical way of disposing of a corpse.  

Societies that impose strict requirements for burial, such as burial in a coffin enclosed in a vault, usually require that the burial of a corpse be done in an approved cemetery where the dirt is relatively expensive.  

In some cases a small burial plot costs more than several acres of land somewhere else.  

Now, concerning crematories in modern societies, in the United States, for example, operating a crematory is subject to laws within each state.  

The corpse is placed in a gas-fired furnace and the temperature is usually adjusted to between 1,400 degrees and 1,800 degrees, Fahrenheit.  

There is virtually no visible smoke that comes out of the chimney of a modern-day crematory. Likewise, there is no detectable odor emitted.  

It usually takes only a couple of hours for a dead body to be cremated. Then it takes about half an hour for the bone fragments to cool before grinding them into small pieces.  

You should realize that most of the modern funeral home concept is exploitive, and, to the Lord, most of the products purchased for burial are a waste of His money that He entrusted to you.  

Of course, this pertains to a pre-arraigned burial of your ex-body or the ex-body of a loved one, whether pre-arraigned or not.  

Today, in the year 2011, the price of a typical low-cost burial in America can be $10,000, not counting the cost of the cemetery dirt.  

Of course, a funeral home director would be delighted to see $20,000, or more, spent and watch all the merchandise be buried in the ground.  

The price of a typical cremation in America is less than $2,000.  

Now, in First Corinthians 3, Paul said that on the Day of Judgment each saved person's work will be revealed with fire, and the fire itself will test the quality of each one's work.  

After the resurrection and rapture of the saints, all of us will pass through that unprecedented fire of the Great Cremation in their new spiritual body.  

Paul said, if our work is burned up we will suffer loss, but we will be saved, yet so as through fire.  

Any loss of rewards by Christians will be eternal.  

Every saved person will pass through that fire on the Last Day.  

In the Scriptures fire has some bad connotations and some good ones.

On the Last Day, Jesus and the angels will come in flames of fire. In Revelation 19:12 it says that Jesus' eyes are a flame of fire.  

After the resurrection and rapture of the saints, the fire of the Great Cremation will burn up all the chaff associated with individual Christians. In fact, the Bible says in Hebrews 12:29 that God himself is a consuming fire.  

Exodus 3:2 says God appeared to Moses in a blazing fire.  

Jesus said in Luke 12:49, "I have come to cast fire upon the earth; and how I wish it were already kindled!"  

John the Baptizer, who baptized with water, said that Jesus would baptize with the Holy Spirit and fire.  

Jesus baptizes some Christians with the Holy Spirit, and on the Last Day He will baptize all the saints with fire.  

The Bible says in Matthew 3:12 that Jesus will gather the wheat into His barn, but He will burn up the chaff with unquenchable fire.  

In Mark 9:49 Jesus said, everyone will be salted with fire.  

David's ex-body, according to the literal Greek, "saw corruption," which is rotting of the corpse. In God's eyes, buried or entombed corpses become corrupted, unless He miraculously prevents that, as with the corpse left by Jesus for three days.  

Now, you need to understand a little more about some of the ways in which God views dead bodies.  

God doesn't have as much respect for corpses as man does.

In Matthew 23:27, Jesus said that tombs contain dead men's bones and all uncleanness. What Jesus was alluding to was germs, disease, maggots, rotten flesh and so forth.  

In John 6:63 Jesus said the flesh, or the body, "counts for nothing."  

Again, Jesus said the flesh, or the body, "counts for nothing."

In Numbers 14 you can read about many ex-bodies of God's people that rotted in the desert. Those corpses were not buried, nor were they cremated.  

In the Old Testament God commanded the holiest men, such as those who took a Nazarite vow, not to touch a corpse.

In Leviticus 21, God said a priest would defile and profane himself by touching any corpse other than those that used to be the bodies of close relatives.  

In Numbers 19, God said to the Israelites that any man who touches a corpse shall be unclean for seven days.  

According to the Mosaic Law, if a person had defiled himself by touching a corpse and was not ceremonially cleansed he would remain unclean and be cut off from Israel.  

The point I am making here is not that Christians, under the New Covenant, should never touch a corpse, but that God doesn't view a corpse with the reverence that many Christians do.  

Jesus' view of death and disposal of corpses is perfect.  

Our Lord told one of His new disciples to follow Him. The disciple said he needed to first go bury his father. Jesus said to the new disciple to let the dead bury the dead. The Lord had virtually no concern about the disciple's perceived need to take care of the body in which his father once lived; and Jesus' view of disposal of a corpse had nothing to do with the fact that the disciple's father was spiritually dead in his trespasses and sins.  

It would not have made any difference to Jesus if the disciple's father was saved. Jesus wanted the new disciple to have a correct view of death, and not have a false concept of reality concerning disposal of corpses, and so forth.  

This is a very good example in the Scriptures of what our priorities should be in regard to following Jesus when He says to follow Him.  

This does not mean that we shouldn't take care of the disposal of a corpse, but that our view of this is not anywhere near the same as God's view.  

True wisdom is seeing things the way God sees them and acting accordingly.  

There is nothing wrong with disposing of the ex-body of a loved one by burial or by cremation; but if Jesus tells us to do something else at that time we should not hesitate to let others take care of the disposal of the corpse, no matter what the relationship of the person was to us. This includes father, mother, wife, husband and children.  

Some Christians think that because the Lord judged some people by having their bodies burned up, disposal of a Christian's ex-body by cremation is unacceptable to God.  

Many more people were judged by God in the Great Flood, by plagues, and so forth, than by being burned.  

When God judged Ananias and Saphira their ex-bodies were immediately buried; but it would be ludicrous to believe that burial of corpses is a sign of God's judgment.  

Nowhere in the entire Bible does God prohibit disposal of a corpse by cremation.  

There exists a relatively new concept called "closure." The concept of closure is a modern one and means something different to everyone who is aware of the concept.  

For some people closure comes when they hear from the attending physician that a loved one just passed away. For some people closure comes when they see the ex-body of a loved one lying in a casket. For some people closure comes when they peek into the urn to see the pulverized bone fragments. And, for some people closure comes when they receive the life insurance check in the mail.  

If any of these things are necessary for closure, then according to many cases recorded in the Bible God denied many people their so-called necessary closure.  

God judged Ananias and his ex-body was buried immediately without a funeral and without informing his wife Saphira until after the corpse was buried. Then God judged Saphira and her ex-body was buried immediately without a funeral and, doubtless, without informing other family members beforehand.  

These are just a couple of many cases in the Bible in which people would have been denied what is now considered a necessary so-called "closure." 

Jesus revealed how insignificant funerals are by saying, "Let the dead bury the dead." As mentioned above, Jesus said that to a new disciple who, before following Jesus, wanted to go bury the corpse left behind by his father.  

Obviously, our loving Savior doesn't think attending a funeral and so-called closure are necessary.  

In Ezekiel 24, God told Ezekiel that He, was going to kill his wife, whom the prophet loved, and God commanded Ezekiel not to mourn or weep over this.  

All that is really needed, if anything, for so-called closure is accepting the reality that a loved one has experienced physical death.  

Oftentimes, the issue with survivors is not that they need to see a corpse or attend a funeral in order to have so-called closure. The real issue with some survivors is that they have unresolved problems with the one who is now gone.  

These problems may be guilt feelings for having physically, emotionally, or in some other way hurt and sinned against the one who is gone, without having made amends.  

Perhaps a survivor wants to get rid of the guilt feelings by talking to the corpse and asking for forgiveness for one or more sins. But the corpse isn't the person who once inhabited it. The person who used to inhabit that corpse is not there.  

According to God, using a particular method of disposal of the ex-body of a loved one, or even a funeral or memorial service, is not necessary for what many people refer to as closure.  

Have you ever wondered why so many Christians are so concerned about what will happen to the corpse they will leave behind, when they abuse and dishonor God with their body while they are still in living in it?  

For example, many Christians are gluttons and greatly over-eat, every day. Many Christians eat excessive amounts of sugar and salt in junk food, and drinks. Some Christians use tobacco, which has been proven to be harmful to the body.  

Many of these same Christians want a nice casket and a waterproof vault in which to have their ex-body buried.  

They would not even consider having their ex-body cremated, because they think it would not be pleasing to God.  

A mixed-up set of values, isn't it?  

Many Christians treat a corpse better and with more respect than they did the person who used to inhabit it.  

Again, many Christians treat a corpse better and with more respect than they did the person who used to inhabit it.  

God doesn't want Christians to put too much emphasis on the physical body---a living one or a dead one.  

Whether you request your relatives or loved ones to bury or to cremate your ex-body after you experience physical death, makes no difference to God.  

What does matter to God concerning disposal of corpses is wasting His money on burial and funeral expenses.  

It is not because God needs the money --- He doesn't. God does not want His people to dishonor Him by the way in which they use His money. The money that the Lord entrusts to you, is not your money, anyway, it's His. You are only God's steward, or manager, of the money in your possession.  

Even the King of kings and Lord of lords' ex-body was not placed in a coffin; and the tomb in which His ex-body was placed after He experienced physical and spiritual death, was donated by someone else.  

Many people somehow think that by spending a lot of money on a fancier casket, vault, headstone, and flowers, they can compensate for their lack of love for that person while he or she was still here.  

Likewise, many people give in to the pressure of relatives and friends who are deceived by the customs and social values of the society in which they live.  

Some people want others to believe they loved the person by spending a lot of money to dispose of that person's ex-body.  

Two things are sure about this--- One, the person, whether in heaven or in hell, whose ex-body is being disposed of, is not impressed, at all. He or she couldn't care less what you do with the corpse or how much money you spend on a funeral, and so forth.  

And two, God isn't impressed with any of that, either.  

Would one of your last sins be to instruct your family to violate God's command in Romans 13:8 to borrow money to bury your ex-body in a casket and in a vault and in a cemetery plot when they might be able to pay for the disposal of your ex-body by cremation, without borrowing money?

God's Word says in Romans 12:1 to offer your body as a living sacrifice. The illustration here is a sacrifice to God that is consumed by fire on an altar.

Are you a living sacrifice to God?

Paul said, in Galatians 2:20, "I have been crucified with Christ and I no longer live, but Christ lives in me. The life I live in the body, I live by faith in the Son of God."

How about you?

 

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